Displays of affection are not so common; couples avoid physical contact in public. This does not mean they are cold – on the contrary – they are used to offering help without being asked to, and are able to change seats so a couple can sit together.
Besides all this, everything has an order, even pedestrians walk in an organized way on the streets and opposite to eastern people (they use the left lane to go and the right lane to come). Do not try to break this order, for you may be dragged by the crowd.
Another major difference is the religion – which makes it hard to understand the limits of what is sacred and the meaning of so many Buddhist entities. Not to mention that language creates all kinds of setbacks for communication and moving around (it is complicated to know if the direction inside the subway is the right one). Luckily the Japanese, especially the young ones, have good knowledge of English and are always in the mood to help lost tourists. When in despair, signaling is universal and works pretty well.
Now picture all these differences and twist of values in a city like Tokyo, that gathers tradition and modernity, millenary traditions and high tech, where kimonos walk side by side with Gothic Lolitas, and where next to a skyscraper there is always a temple. Indeed, Japan is an experience to color the eyes and enrich the mind.
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Translated by Lúcia Maciel